Don’t be with other people. Dog, cat and kids are okay!
2. About your profile on the site:
Do include what’s unique about you and why someone may
want to go out with you.
Do describe your values in the body of the profile. What’s
fulfilling for you? What do you treasure?
Do try to be a descriptive as possible so the reader will
experience what you do. (Help them see, smell and hear the
beach) Put in a come play with me quality!
Don’t put stuff in your profile that is not putting your best
Don’t lie! Be honest and upbeat. That doesn’t mean you
have to tell all your faults!
3. Contacting each other:
Do go after quality and not quantity!
Do find something that you connect to. A cause or a
Do email back and forth a couple of times to get a sense of a
person: their way of thinking and how they express
Don’t be a pen pal! If the person is unwilling to talk on the
phone, stop the interchange.
Do talk on the phone to gain further rapport.
Do trust your intuition. If something doesn’t feel right, don’t
pursue any further.
Don’t talk on the phone for weeks without making plans to
4. Meeting each other:
Do give each other cell phone numbers in case something
happens on your way to the meeting.
Do meet in a public place for coffee during the day, if
Do “be yourself”.
Don’t run away if the person doesn’t look like what you
Don’t give out too much information about yourself before
you know the person better.
Don’t expect the man to pay (women). Be prepared to pay
your share. It will be a nice surprise if he does pay.
Do give a nice person a second chance. Chemistry can
develop over time.
5. Following up
Do be honest about your level of interest in the person. They
may know someone else you’d like to meet.
Do thank the person for a nice time and if someone paid.
Don’t say you’ll call and not call!
Don’t wait a month to call the woman if you liked her. She
may have moved onto her next prospect
About the Author:
Amy Schoen, principal of Heartmind Connection (http://www.heartmindconnection.com ) has been transforming people to be their best for over 20 years. Amy has the gift of visualization and uses it to help her clients visualize the kind of life they truly desire. Contact Amy at CoachAmy@heartmindconnection.com or 240-498-7803 for a complimentary phone coaching session and learn how to make the best decisions for you using both the heart and your mind.