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Heartmind Connection Chronicles

March 2006

This month's feature article:

5 Signs That You Have Found the "Right One"!

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For my frustrated friends out there still trying to find “the one”……

Quote of the month:  Courage doesn’t always roar.  Sometimes courage is the quiet voice at the end of the day saying, ”I will try again tomorrow.”  --Mary Anne Radmacher 


The next Motivated to Marry™ Tele-gathering will be March 20th.

In January we had a very informative and lively discussion about creating an attraction plan for 2006.  To join a tele-gathering all you have to do is call in to the bridge line provided, add your two cents to our monthly topic.  Bring your questions, issues and concerns about dating and relationships- Talk with Amy Schoen, Professional Life Coach and Dating and Relationship Expert.

Tele-gatherings take place on the third Monday of the month at 8 p.m. – the next one is on March 20th.  Our topic will be a continuation on the theme about “Who are you attracting? Who do you want to attract to you?”  Sign up at www.heartmindconnection.com under tele-gatherings.

Come hear Amy speak at the following event in the DC area:


Thursday, March 9th
How to Get Out and Date-Again!
New Beginnings (For separated and divorced individuals)
Montgomery County , MD location
Contact: Debra Frederick 301-929-3391

Wednesday, March 22nd
Dating Like a Pro!
Learning Escapes
Vienna, VA
Contact: www.learningescapes.com

Wednesday, April 19th
Learn How to Date with the Motivated to Marry™ Method
Learning Escapes
Vienna, VA
Contact: www.learningescapes.com

Wednesday, May 10th at 6:30 pm
Am I Ever Going To Meet the Right Person?  Learn How to Date with the Motivated to Marry™ Method!
First Class
Dupont Circle, Washington, DC
Contact: 202-797-5102

Do you need a speaker for an event or meeting? See my entire list of speech topics on www.heartmindconnection.com . For more information contact Amy at 240-498-7803 or coachamy@heartmindconnection.com

Feature Article:

Amy’s note:
For those who saw the Bachelor in Paris this past month, and specifically this past week, this article is perfect.  I predicted that Travis would choose Sarah since they had similar backgrounds, a level of comfort and “that feeling of home”.  Ruana was intriguing and exciting, but not the girl you brought home to the family and settled down with. 

5 Signs That You Have Found the "Right One"!

Nancy is 38 and has been dating Barry for a year now and is wondering if he is the one for her.  She would like to be married with a family and is starting to think about if she should break up with Barry.   My advice is that if she isn’t sure, then it is not right.  This is why.  Of the couples I have interviewed, they expressed having these signs about their mates they married:

1. There is a feeling of  “home” 

There is a sense of comfort, and a familiarity.  The word recognition comes up as knowing that this person is the one.  It’s like you have known the person your whole life.  It’s so easy to talk to one another.

2. There is a Flow

The relationship has ease.  The couples finish each other’s sentences.  Time just flies when you are with the right person.  Yes, relationships take work, but this is joyous work.  The concept of flow is true for both in and out of the bedroom!

3. You are able to laugh together and have fun

You enjoy being with each other and get each other’s jokes.  You may not have exactly the same humor, but you at least crack a smile.  My husband and I both blew straw wrappings at each other like kids!  It’s okay to be silly with this person.  The couple has fun doing activities together and has some similar interests.


Article continued below:

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Article continued from above:

4. You are each other’s best friend

There is a sense of trust and loyalty.  You are know your partner will be there for you through thick and thin and can be counted on.   You want to share everything with this person- the good and the bad stuff. You are always excited to see that person walk in the door. 

5. You both act in a “we”  way rather than a “me”  way

The couple makes decisions that the benefit the relationship instead of only the individual.  You share life goals and work together towards them together.  You care about how your actions affect the other. 

When all these signs are in place, then it is natural to want to take the next step towards marriage.  The only things that would stop the progress in a relationship would be one or both of their internal fears and external circumstances.

When Nancy realized that several of these signs were missing in her current relationship, she became clear that she needed to move on and find someone better suited to her rather than hoping that things would change in her present situation.   This wasn’t the easy path, but she was determined not to settle for anything less.

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Amy Schoen, CPCC
Heartmind Connection™

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